For many, they are still a taboo topic. And those who are able to speak more freely still keep their discussions within safe spaces. Which begs the question, do people know enough to talk about them with confidence? What do people who don’t have periods want to know?
We conducted a small survey asking 20 people who don’t have periods what questions they had. We then asked 60 people who do have periods to answer them.
The findings? Everyone has a different experience, and getting the conversation flowing is key to creating a more understanding and comfortable workplace for everyone.
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How long does your period last and does the length vary?
What are the most annoying things you hear about periods from people who don't experience it?
What did you wish people who don't experience it asked you?
What are the things you wished you could talk about more freely?
How much does it cost you a month?
Why isn't it more common for public toilets to provide supplies when in an emergency?
What do you do when periods are painful?
How long did it take before you felt like you had a good handle on how to manage your period?
What are common mistakes / wrong pieces of advice you've received?
Have you ever missed school/work/an event due to pain or discomfort? Were you surprised at how little non-menstruating people know about all this?
Are blood clots more painful than “runny” periods? I have no idea how to phrase this question. I’ve heard of blood clots in periods but do they hurt more? Can you feel them coming out? From a gay man who’s never been near a vagina (post being born).
How do periods make you feel?
Does it feel good to have sex while on your period?
What actually helps the pain?
Do your periods change as you get older?
Do you get shades of blood? What do they mean?
Do your periods have the same sensation each time or does it vary?
What can be done to support people who menstruate?
What do period cramps feel like?
What can I do to support my partner during a bad period?
What’s the biggest mental/emotional change you experience when on your period? (If any)